Multitasking an important weapon for all mothers

Hi friends!  Its been a very long time since I chatted with you guys. Today lets discuss how multitasking is an important weapon for all the mothers across the world. Is true mother is the messenger of God.. She somehow has to manage home, children, work, relations, and culture. 

How to achieve the impossible of managing too many tasks by all the mothers?

• Preplanning and management of time is crucial for multitasking. Without them you cannot manage to achieve the goal.
• Always prioritise your functions of work. You are not a superwoman to do 100 things at a given time frame. So set your priorties and keep the remaining for the next time.
• Giving time to children and spouse is equally important. So dont neglect them at all. They are your family and even stress busters. So maintain good relations with them.
• Identify your agenda of work in advance.Dont keep it for last minute then you cannot plan and execute.
• Relaxation is equally important. You are not a set machine, but a human being so in between breaks or short naps is equally important.
• While doing so much work, we mothers, tend to forget ourself. We forget to take care of ourself, dont do that taking care of oneself is also of utmost importance.
• Watch a movie, or a nice program with your family or go for picnics and outings whenever you can. It will not only destress you but also help you connect better with your spouse and children.

Happy parenting and have a good time!!!!

Make kids play to learn in quick ways

Hi friends. Sorry guys I couldnt write to you last week. I promise to keep updating blogs regularly. Today we will talk about interesting ways in which we can make kids play and learn in quick ways. I get very perturbed to see parents sending  pre primary students to tuitionsand classes at such a young age. There is no such urgent need to send kids to classes. Whatever they learn at home with their parents is the best. Remember parents can lay the foundation much better with their kids than no one else. So please avoid the herd mentality and stop pressuring your kids too much.

Lets jott down important points

• Please restrict watching TV shows to the bare minimum for kids. The more they watch, the more they get distracted when they sit to study.
• Teach concept of alphabets, numbers with clay, dough. Kids love to explore.
• Try renting out blocks of alphabets, numbers from  toy library and make children feel how abcs, and 123s look in real.
• Improve visualisation of kids, by making them draw pictures and allowing them to colour.
• Dont force them to sit and study. I teach my daughter poems when she is bathing, or getting dressed for school. Even rickshaw time is utilised well when I take up her poem lessons.
• Try to allow them to feel different types of paper, shapes, blocks, puzzles so that their motor skills improve.
• No point of pressurising kids so much. They will learn with time.
• Writing gets a bit difficult with small tiny toddlers. But with regular habit and enough of patience kids master it well.
• Teach concept of vegetables, fruits and stuff by making them feel it in reality. Allow them to come along with you while going to market or supermarket mall.
• Every moment you can educate your child.

Enjoy parenting and have a great time!!!!!

How to time manage things and get optimum success

Hi friends. Hope you folks are doing fine. Today lets talk on interesting and essential topic on how to time manage things and get optimum success.

• First things always should come first and not last. We parents have lots of work assigned to us. But rather than being jack of all trades, try to prioritize the work according to its importance. 
• Dont try to do all work at one Go. Rome wasnt built in one day. 
• Always try to give space and time to your children. They need you the most.
• If you are getting hyper due to stress, please try to spend some time alone or aloof. Else all the anger and frustration will start bursting on your children.
• Spend time for yourself. A nice morning walk, or yoga can be certainly refreshing and energetic for your life.
• Dont try to skip meals due to lack of time. There is never lack of any time. Always preplan before itself so that you dont turn out to be hungry for long gaps due to overburden of household or office work.
• If parents are healthy, only then will the kids be healthy.
• Always celebrate occassions so that it offers you the escapist route to break away from routine and boredom.
• Take good care of yourself and pamper yourself once in a while so that you feel rejuvenated and splendid.

Enjoy parenting and have a great time!!!!

Playing with puzzles improves toddler's concentration skills

Hi friends! Today we are going to talk about puzzles that helps to improve your toddler's concentration skills. We all know how far its important to focus and concentrate in our lives. You can inculcate habit of concentration quite early in your kid's life by exposing him to puzzles at young age.

• Toddlers tend to divert within few moments. They generally packed with lot of energy and activity. So its normally very difficult to get them sit at one place and play.
• Puzzles and activities that require motor skills and eye movements help toddlers to concentrate and accomplish the task.
• Its always better to start giving small-small activities and help your child think and act accordingly.
• So go google and search most colourful puzzles and start off with easy ones first.
• Slowly and steadily, you can increase the difficulty level.
• You can even become a memeber of any toy library and get rented out puzzles, toys, abacus and various interesting stuff from them at a very reasonable price like me. As with the help of toy library, you can provide more variety and colors for your children to play.

Enjoy parenting and have a great time!!!!

How to get rid of your child's habit of sucking thumb

Hi friends. I am very sorry I couldnt write to you guys. I was a bit unwell the entire last week. Today we will talk of an interesting topic as to how to get rid of your child's habit of sucking thumb.

I know, its a bit embarrassing when elder toddlers aged more than 5 years have a habit of sucking thumb. See parents, you need not worry so much if the toddlers aged between 1 and 5 are having this problem. Dont worry, time is the biggest healer and it will get forgotten.

Lets jott down some of the important points that as parents we should know.

• Firstly, dont scold your child in front of others due to their sucking thumb habit.

• Try to find out the reason for sucking thumb. Is it sheer pleasure, or comfort, or relaxation that generally make kids drawn towards this habit? Also, some kids suck the thumb to relieve themselves from stress and fear.
• As parents, its our moral responsibility to give them secure environment to feel comfortable and happy.
• Try to create games and gifts revolving the sucking thumb habit. Whenever your child doesnt suck his thumb, pamper him with small gifts. Let your child himself mark the days when he has not sucked his thumb.
• Some kids, suck their thumb to go to sleep. Try to switch gears, and change the pattern of sleep. Teach him interesting stories during bed time and ensure that he falls asleep without sucking his thumb. Initially it might be difficult but with growing time, things will turn out better.
• Develop friendhip with your children so that they can concide in you for whatever problems they face, in school, classes, or friends.

Enjoy parenting and have a great time!!!

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eNJOY PARENTING AND HAVE A GREAT TIME!!!!

Games is an extension of creativity for kids

Hi friends. How are you. I was a bit down with fever so couldnt write to you guys. Today lets talk how games improves creativity in kids. I am not talking about video games, or smart phones, but simple indoor games like chess, carom board, treasure hunt, pin the tail on the donkey, etc.

• Indoor games comparatively are less exciting than outdoor games, but they definitely are useful in stimulating the brains and improving creativity.
• It rebuilds the bonding with family and friends as altogether can play and participate.
• Indoor games are no longer just restricted to the four walls of the house. Now we have champions winning tournaments in chess and carom across the globe.
• Always encourage kids to play. Dont impose too much restrictions on them.
• The more the kids use their intelligence, IQ to play games, its more better for them.
• Games improve concentration spell.
• A healthy mix of outdoor and indoor game activity is ideal for kids that will  give a great combination of physical fitness and mental alertness.

Enjoy parenting and have a great time!!!!